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Nothing worth telling – no need to upgrade the experience with a story. I remember checking it out after a long term relationship ended six years ago, and it seemed a colorful and fun place to explore online dating and see “what’s out there”.
Back then, I corresponded with three people who were too far to meet in person, and the pen friendship was helpful in re-discovering how to gradually get to know a new person.
I accept that it will take time to get over (in this case) my BPD lover. \ Until then, I am grateful for my health, my friendships, my sobriety, and for my accomplishments. Reply Hi Kim – Your work helped me recover from a love affair with someone who had textbook NPD, Thank You! While recovering from NPD boyfriend, I did use POF and OKC, looking specifically for buddies with similar interests.
Reply yep, 3 years-red flags all the time that I denied…until one day the moron sent my cell phone a message he intended to send to another girl, nasty and disgusting…when I confronted him he just calmly said that he wasn’t my boyfriend…this was after 3 years. Not going anywhere.backwards 🙂 I have a friend on Tinder and she makes me crazy with her stories. Reply Im 56 years old – before the days of internet, I met guys thru places I went-didnt mean they wouldn’t turn out to be pigs but at least I got to meet them in person. I gave him my cellphone number (Not smart) but I was able to find out where his number was from, nothing to do with Santa Ana, CA.
I met two of the international contacts, I traveled to one, the other traveled to meet me, and in both cases it was obvious that we would be friends, but no more. she broke up with me in an e mail I read after I got out of the hospital, saying she’s going to work on her relationship with her husband of 35 years. I met her at the hospital she works at, She is a ceo of. I wish I had an easy answer to help with your anger, but it’s definitely a process. There are typically four phases to recovery from these relationships, which would require more than I can offer here in the comments, but a good place to start would be the Beginner’s Healing Toolkit that I have for free here on the site.
Even those two fizzled out in the past 2 years, but I still feel enriched for the encounters and lessons. I know this is a stretch and an emotional work-out for introverts, but there are meet-up groups and coaches for that, too 🙂 . One I didn’t know she was bisexual, and has four grown children, Or that she was married. What can I do besides therapy, and working out, and affirmations? It typically takes several different healing modalities to recover from narcissistic abuse, including transformational healing practices. I’ve never been on Tinder but had one “relationship” from OKC and one from POF.
My psychiatrist encouraged me to go on POF because it was free, and a cast of millions.
I just couldn’t get it right, even after trying 3-4 times.
When in my early 30’s I did newspaper ads, then after a while starting in my late 30’s, I did the online thing, one of my first was ok cupid…I met someone there in my early 40’s who turned out to be a narcissistic weirdo who only wanted one thing, and it wasnt a committed relationship (at least with me), unfortunately, it took me a while to get over that emotional obsession, by the time I did, it was really too late for me -nature had taken away my ability to have children…I have had 100% bad stuff from every online dating service I joined and that has been over a dozen and the men there…from being stood up, to meeting psychos who boldly put up pictures that were not them or from 20 yrs prior, to being abused verbally or emotionally, to being lied, to promises of love that never happened, to being coaxed to give of myself just to be taken advantage of…You can see, I don’t need an article to keep me away, but keep spreading the word, so others might know. I asked what was the day’s weather like in Santa Ana, he gave me Raleigh’s NC weather, like 20 degrees hotter than CA. I know there are out there vulnerable people that can fell for people like this guy… I’ve been dipping my toes in the water, but the idea of dating really scares the crap out of me!