Hearing people dating the deaf need a break from dating
An ideal marriage is one where one can communicate freely, and clearly; so that one can share life with each other...
..believe love will take care of everything..the time it wasn't important...was.... Is language now more important than the love you had in the beginging?Many deaf people predicted our marriage fail because he is hearing and I am deaf..."-JAZ16"HOH..refuses to learn SL as well..frustrating situation for us both. I'm having to constantly tell him to LOOK at me, and repeat what he had just said...We have both talked it over, and he finally realized how difficult it is for me, and how frustrating it is for us to rely on lip readng alone.She does get irritated with me when I don't understand something right away.If she has to repeat something more than once it can be very embarrassing, especially if we are in company, because she starts to get irritated with me and I start to feel flustered, making it even more difficult for me to concentrate and understand what's being said.hurtful..have my own wife shouting irritatedly at me does not make me feel any more secure in myself..."-ROWLANDT1"married to hearing guy, he use the only communication with me in SL but sometime I use my voice...important to tell your husband how do you feel...maybe give him few options like lipreading test/Speech reading, if you said the following phrases with no voice.
I even bought him a SL book but that didn't work...broke it off..."-MISSYB26"She wants me to learn to speak..out signs which i cant do.