Dating question reassurance relationship
As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves.
The harder you cling the more the Narcissist pulls away.
Narcissists become bored easily and what usually starts happening in their heads at this stage, is that the void begins to emerge again.
They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.
Their pursuer is exactly what they want in a partner (because the Narcissist is mirroring what they have learned appeals to their target) and they can’t believe how lucky they are and that this catch is still single.
What they don’t know, or could ever be prepared for, is what comes next.
Suddenly the attention they so lavishly gave you is gone and replace by indifference and silence.
Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.
The greater the status, the higher the value the Narcissist places on the Supply derived.