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Telling Parents and Siblings if You Live at Home Telling Your Family as an Adult Dealing With Prejudices in Your Family Community Q&A Once socially frowned upon in some cultures, more and more people accept interracial dating and marriage as a non-issue these days.One factor that still inhibits interracial relationships is a fear that family will react negatively and reject the relationship.I had more than one black boyfriend in my twenties, and a few others in shades between olive and dark brown.When my parents said that one of them shouldn't be invited to our holiday table, I stopped showing up also.This man I had woken up with earlier in the day now seemed like a stranger to me.Specifically, he seemed like someone of another culture that I didn't know or understand.His words shut off the alarm bells in my head and I agreed to follow him into the racially slurred forest where we would attempt to change what his parents, and so many, say in private to their kids about a mixed-race marriage.
I only had the gumption to fight them and eventually end their narrow-mindedness because they showed me so much love.Yes, it was white privilege that blinded me to the fact I might be the bottom of the barrel on someone else's race card.Perhaps even more so because I have been listening to the dialogue about how to make America more post-racial -- mostly as it pertains to black and white culture -- for so long that it never occurred to me that an Asian immigrant family might cry foul when their son fell in love with an all-American girl like me.Which was in fact true, because as much as we had in common, I was completely unaware of what it meant to grow up Asian-American -- both in his home and in the outside world.But Seung kept talking and what he was saying didn't allow me to recoil for too long. He had a plan for how he would address this issue with his parents and he wondered if I was willing to take the leap with him.
But truthfully, I was blindsided for personal reasons, too.